>>82440 #BenderShare definition1: (UK and Ireland) A Homosexual male2: Insulting phrase; derogatory term."they called him Ye bender Ye bender; Bender being a derogatry term fer Faggot" - Thomas 'The Tanker' Smythebent refShare definitionA person known as a bent ref is a Paediophile. Taken from the popular cult series Brass Eye!Oi J-mo you know what you are? A bent Ref!